10 Irresistible Ingredients for lasting Relationship [Christian]

You are dating an incredibly good looking guy or girl. You both feel the Chemistry, even when there isn't reason to call it a magical feeling yet, you decide to exaggerate it and convince yourself you are on to the right person, What happens next? My advice, do not let your passion take control of you, you should have set limits and standards, you are special, so don't ruin yourself in the name of youthful "fun".

Here are 10 Ingredients to Prepare a Delicious Relationship

 

1. Don't overlook the Basics

Birds of the same Plumage... you know the rest. If the person you are dating doesn't like the most important things that keep you happy most of the times, do not compromise and tell yourself he/she will change. They will only but pretend, still at that, for how long? This is the first test you should take, if you agree in most and disagree in this then you are in for an unhappy experience.

2. Put on the armor of God daily

Now people feel relationships are not worth praying for. Prayer does all things, you should find time to pray for your relationship if you really love your relationship. If there is a problem always put it in prayer. Make out time to also pray together about the relationship and be open; pour out your heart content anytime you are praying together.

3. Put obedience over passion

Always try to Obey your partner and if you feel he/she wants you to do what is wrong, take your time and explain like a matured person and give them reasons why you can't do it, with a meek and humble tone, no arrogance (this is especially for the women), and most of all always obey God's commandments in your relationship.

4. Physical expression must be appropriate

Make physical contacts as often as possible, if you people could handle the crowd, feel free to Hug every time you see and when you want to depart. Hugging also has its own health benefits.

5. Limits must be set mutually

Both partners should take responsibility for setting limits. Mutual boundary keeping reflects maturity.

6. Examine your personal motives

What is your motivation? power and control, gratifying your own ego, meeting a selfish need, or genuine affection? Do not lead the guy or the girl on for a useless reason or if you don't intend anything serious.

7. Is there too much physical and too little other?

If the social, emotional, spiritual dimensions are missing or lacking, you are out of balance. If you can’t stand the person but have a great physical relationship, rethink the relationship. There is problem

8.  Less is better

If one person is uncomfortable with any type of physical expression, don’t do it. You should respect and honor each other. Don’t push a date to do anything that makes him/her feel uncomfortable.

9. Be guided by love

Love doesn't hurt, doesn't retaliate, Love forgives, Love doesn't have any ill intention, Love is the greatest law. Jesus is love.

10.  Allow the Holy Spirit to direct and lead you

At anytime you are sure he/she isn't the right person and doesn't want to change, feel free to look the other way once you are convinced.

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